Emotional Neglect
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ysabetwordsmithcosmolinguist wrote a long, detailed discussion of emotional neglect that I suspect will resonate with many of my readers. ysabetwordsmithcosmolinguist wrote a long, detailed discussion of emotional neglect that I suspect will resonate with many of my readers. 
Food
Feb. 28th, 2026 03:19 pmysabetwordsmithPeople want to avoid ultra-processed foods. But experts struggle to define them
The American diet is killing us. On that point, public health experts largely agree.
And in recent years, people who want to make Americans healthier — across the ideological spectrum — are targeting ultra-processed foods, which make up the majority of what Americans eat.
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The American diet is killing us. On that point, public health experts largely agree.
And in recent years, people who want to make Americans healthier — across the ideological spectrum — are targeting ultra-processed foods, which make up the majority of what Americans eat.
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Birdfeeding
Feb. 28th, 2026 03:05 pmysabetwordsmithToday is partly sunny and mild.
I fed the birds. I've seen a flock of sparrows.
I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I cut and labeled four more water jugs. These are for flower mixes: Part-Shade Wildflowers, Edible Flowers, Fragrant Flowers, and 20th Anniversary Prairie Wildflowers. I skipped the Monarch Mix because that includes a bunch of nectar annuals like zinnias and cosmos which prefer warmer weather; I may make a jug for this later in spring.
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I sowed and taped the jugs.
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I carried the jugs to the parking lot and secured them with salvaged string.
The honeybees are out in force today. They are investigating everything to see if it is a flower. I am not a flower, but at least they finally found the actual flowers. In addition to the lavender crocus, there are now two yellow ones by the log garden and a white one in the rain garden. Many of the snowdrops are open too. :D Yay flowers!
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I dug up several clumps of volunteer daffodils that had seeded themselves into the parking lot, and transplanted them all around the house yard to go under various trees where they will be safer. I still need to move a lot of snowdrops, though.
I've seen a male cardinal. I've heard the red-winged blackbirds singing, but haven't seen them.
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.
I saw a pair of house finches courting plus an extra male.
I am done for the night.
I fed the birds. I've seen a flock of sparrows.
I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I cut and labeled four more water jugs. These are for flower mixes: Part-Shade Wildflowers, Edible Flowers, Fragrant Flowers, and 20th Anniversary Prairie Wildflowers. I skipped the Monarch Mix because that includes a bunch of nectar annuals like zinnias and cosmos which prefer warmer weather; I may make a jug for this later in spring.
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I sowed and taped the jugs.
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I carried the jugs to the parking lot and secured them with salvaged string.
The honeybees are out in force today. They are investigating everything to see if it is a flower. I am not a flower, but at least they finally found the actual flowers. In addition to the lavender crocus, there are now two yellow ones by the log garden and a white one in the rain garden. Many of the snowdrops are open too. :D Yay flowers!
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I dug up several clumps of volunteer daffodils that had seeded themselves into the parking lot, and transplanted them all around the house yard to go under various trees where they will be safer. I still need to move a lot of snowdrops, though.
I've seen a male cardinal. I've heard the red-winged blackbirds singing, but haven't seen them.
EDIT 2/28/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.
I saw a pair of house finches courting plus an extra male.
I am done for the night.
I'm back after disappearing for a gazillion years again
Feb. 28th, 2026 02:46 pmmidnight_heavenly_bodies posting in ![[community profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png){kind=small}
addmeName: C.K. or Chester
Age: 36, nearly 37, growing old mandatory, growing up optional
I mostly post about: Culture Club/Boy George & Jon Moss (my hyperfixation of 22 years and counting), Linkin Park, wrestling (classic SMW/WWF, Jim Cornette, and my deeply cursed WWE 2K25 Universe), my OCs who are realer to me than most people, witchcraft/spirit work/folk healing/moon rituals/grief magic, retro gaming, emotional overshares that read like journal entries from a possessed poet, fanfiction that makes people unwell at 2am, chaos, and the occasional Reddit food rabbit hole
My hobbies are: Writing fic that's 70% emotional breakdown, 20% worldbuilding, and 10% people getting railed in a meaningful way, hexing cults with sigils and sass, collecting music like a religion, drawing OCs, being a haunted glitter goblin with eyeliner and vengeance, building 48-year fanfiction universes with fully documented timelines and named children, going to work like a normal person and coming home a completely different entity
My fandoms are: Culture Club (I'm writing a massive AU called Colour By Numbers spanning 1978-2026, and a supernatural [not the show] fic called The Rhythm of the Hollow), Linkin Park (Bennoda forever), wrestling (SMW/WWF/WCW but mainly the universes in my head)
I'm looking for people who: are too weird for Reddit, too raw for Instagram, too smart for Twitter/X, overshare about their OCs like a religion, cry over character development, understand that Jon Moss deserved better, write long posts, and don't find it weird that I've named all the children in my fictional universe including the surprise baby
My posting schedule: Erratic. Sometimes a lot. Sometimes I vanish for three weeks and return with an entire AU timeline and a new OC
Before adding me: I'm a trans man (he/him, they/them). Autistic and ADHD. I write mpreg unapologetically. I am a Zionist and tired of explaining what that actually means. Pro-AI. I smoke weed. I am extremely defensive of Jon Moss and will write essays about it. My AO3 is CampCornette69 and yes that's a wrestling reference
Age: 36, nearly 37, growing old mandatory, growing up optional
I mostly post about: Culture Club/Boy George & Jon Moss (my hyperfixation of 22 years and counting), Linkin Park, wrestling (classic SMW/WWF, Jim Cornette, and my deeply cursed WWE 2K25 Universe), my OCs who are realer to me than most people, witchcraft/spirit work/folk healing/moon rituals/grief magic, retro gaming, emotional overshares that read like journal entries from a possessed poet, fanfiction that makes people unwell at 2am, chaos, and the occasional Reddit food rabbit hole
My hobbies are: Writing fic that's 70% emotional breakdown, 20% worldbuilding, and 10% people getting railed in a meaningful way, hexing cults with sigils and sass, collecting music like a religion, drawing OCs, being a haunted glitter goblin with eyeliner and vengeance, building 48-year fanfiction universes with fully documented timelines and named children, going to work like a normal person and coming home a completely different entity
My fandoms are: Culture Club (I'm writing a massive AU called Colour By Numbers spanning 1978-2026, and a supernatural [not the show] fic called The Rhythm of the Hollow), Linkin Park (Bennoda forever), wrestling (SMW/WWF/WCW but mainly the universes in my head)
I'm looking for people who: are too weird for Reddit, too raw for Instagram, too smart for Twitter/X, overshare about their OCs like a religion, cry over character development, understand that Jon Moss deserved better, write long posts, and don't find it weird that I've named all the children in my fictional universe including the surprise baby
My posting schedule: Erratic. Sometimes a lot. Sometimes I vanish for three weeks and return with an entire AU timeline and a new OC
Dealbreakers: Racism, ableism, transphobia, homophobia, antisemitism, being a dick, Scientology apologists, anyone who thinks Mike Shinoda is evil because of an Instagram reel, "isn't wrestling fake?", "you still like Linkin Park?"
Before adding me: I'm a trans man (he/him, they/them). Autistic and ADHD. I write mpreg unapologetically. I am a Zionist and tired of explaining what that actually means. Pro-AI. I smoke weed. I am extremely defensive of Jon Moss and will write essays about it. My AO3 is CampCornette69 and yes that's a wrestling reference
New Year's Resolutions Check In
Feb. 28th, 2026 01:22 amysabetwordsmithWe made it to the end of February! \o/ If you have completed any of your short-term goals or subgoals, and/or you're still chugging away at your ongoing goals, then pat yourself on the back. You worked hard for that. About 95% of New Year's resolutions crash and burn before the end of January. If you're still going, you have beaten the odds!
I'm continuing to track goals at the end of each month. So far it seems to be helping, so that's encouraging. I'm looking at my goal list more often and trying to keep ticking off more of them.
These are the previous check in posts:
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 9
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 16
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 23
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 30
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I'm continuing to track goals at the end of each month. So far it seems to be helping, so that's encouraging. I'm looking at my goal list more often and trying to keep ticking off more of them.
These are the previous check in posts:
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 9
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 16
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 23
New Year's Resolutions Check In January 30
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Philosophical Questions: Government
Feb. 28th, 2026 12:04 amysabetwordsmithPeople have expressed interest in deep topics, so this list focuses on philosophical questions.
In an ideal government, what should a good citizen provide to their government and what should that government provide that good citizen?
A good citizen should provide respect as earned, a reasonable share of taxes, contribution to society, well-informed opinions on public matters, and civic participation such as voting.
A good government should provide survival needs or the means to meet them, responsible spending of taxes on public goods, respectable laws, honorable leaders, and the ability to do things at larger scale than individuals could do alone. And not meddle in things that are none of its business.
In an ideal government, what should a good citizen provide to their government and what should that government provide that good citizen?
A good citizen should provide respect as earned, a reasonable share of taxes, contribution to society, well-informed opinions on public matters, and civic participation such as voting.
A good government should provide survival needs or the means to meet them, responsible spending of taxes on public goods, respectable laws, honorable leaders, and the ability to do things at larger scale than individuals could do alone. And not meddle in things that are none of its business.
Books
Feb. 27th, 2026 09:02 pmysabetwordsmith"ENTANGLED LIFE" DISCUSSION POST is up on bookclub_dw. If you've read the book, it's time to talk about mushrooms. :D
bookclub_dw. If you've read the book, it's time to talk about mushrooms. :DSpace Exploration
Feb. 27th, 2026 06:03 pmysabetwordsmithSix planets will align in a rare ‘planetary parade’ this weekend
Six planets will be visible in the evening sky. Mercury, Venus, Saturn, and Jupiter will be bright enough to see with just your eyes.
Uranus and Neptune will be much dimmer, so binoculars or a telescope will make them easier to find.
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Six planets will be visible in the evening sky. Mercury, Venus, Saturn, and Jupiter will be bright enough to see with just your eyes.
Uranus and Neptune will be much dimmer, so binoculars or a telescope will make them easier to find.
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Moment of Silence: Neil Sedaka
Feb. 27th, 2026 05:51 pmysabetwordsmithSinger and songwriter Neil Sedaka has passed away. His hits included "Breaking Up Is Hard to Do," "Laughter in the Rain," and "Love Will Keep Us Together."
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Follow Friday 2-20-26: Active Communities on Dreamwidth Winter 2025-2026 J-Z
Feb. 27th, 2026 01:37 pmysabetwordsmithThese are active communities in Dreamwidth from Winter 2025-2026. They include things I've posted, but only the active ones; the thematic posts also list dormant communities of interest. This list includes some communities that I've found and saved but haven't made it into thematic posts yet. This post covers J-Z.
See my Follow Friday Master Post for more topics.
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See my Follow Friday Master Post for more topics.
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Birdfeeding
Feb. 27th, 2026 01:34 pmysabetwordsmithToday is sunny and warmer with a nice breeze. :D
I fed the birds. I've seen a flock of sparrows and a male house finch.
I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I cut and labeled four water jugs. These will hold Shithouse Marigolds, Black-eyed Susan, Milkweed, and Purple Aster. These are all flowers that I know can handle harsh conditions.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I taped the jugs, moved them to the parking lot, and secured them with string.
I've seen a starling. Red-winged blackbirds are calling, but I haven't seen them. They arrived way early again this year, so I suspected that they'd wind up in my yard, regretting their poor life choices. At least it has cover and water here.
Crocuses are blooming, still all pale lavender. But there is a white bud in the rain garden!
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I did more work around the patio.
I've seen a fox squirrel at the hopper feeder.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I did more work around the patio.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I finished trimming dead stems off the wildflower garden. I still need to cut down the tree seedlings and rake more leaves off it, but the old grass is gone.
A yellow crocus is blooming by the log garden. Snowdrop flowers are opening. :D
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I did more work around the patio.
I am done for the night.
I fed the birds. I've seen a flock of sparrows and a male house finch.
I put out water for the birds.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I cut and labeled four water jugs. These will hold Shithouse Marigolds, Black-eyed Susan, Milkweed, and Purple Aster. These are all flowers that I know can handle harsh conditions.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I taped the jugs, moved them to the parking lot, and secured them with string.
I've seen a starling. Red-winged blackbirds are calling, but I haven't seen them. They arrived way early again this year, so I suspected that they'd wind up in my yard, regretting their poor life choices. At least it has cover and water here.
Crocuses are blooming, still all pale lavender. But there is a white bud in the rain garden!
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I did more work around the patio.
I've seen a fox squirrel at the hopper feeder.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I did more work around the patio.
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I finished trimming dead stems off the wildflower garden. I still need to cut down the tree seedlings and rake more leaves off it, but the old grass is gone.
A yellow crocus is blooming by the log garden. Snowdrop flowers are opening. :D
EDIT 2/27/26 -- I did more work around the patio.
I am done for the night.
Photos: Water Garden
Feb. 26th, 2026 11:44 pmysabetwordsmithMy second garden craft today was making a mini-water garden. (See the House Yard and the Worm Bin.)
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Photos: Worm Bin
Feb. 26th, 2026 11:27 pmysabetwordsmithOne of today's garden crafts was making a worm bin. You can buy commercial ones, but they're expensive. All this took was a few minutes to set it up. (See the House Yard and the Water Garden.)
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Photos: House Yard
Feb. 26th, 2026 10:58 pmysabetwordsmithToday I took some pictures around the yard and did a couple of garden crafts. These are from the house yard and savanna. (See the Worm Bin and the Water Garden.)
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