It's fine, and I agree that not everyone should have to deal with it. It does make it easy for me to understand a lot of these fringers though, though it also comes with me acknowledging what an idiot I was back in the day, so I keep hoping that some of these guys stop staying so close to the deep end.

I remember enough to know that if you can find yourself in a bubble that keeps you there long enough, it gets really hard to get out. I feel lucky enough to have been this way when there were very few people out there admitting it, at least in my circles. For those in incel sites, I can see it very easy to get in deeper, especially since a lot of fringe violent groups are looking for folks at their most vulnerable like that to give them purpose as weapons for their agenda.