My husband and I had fights around our wedding. I still make fun of him for the car ride down to the cottage where he nearly got the wedding cancelled:
Him: this is so great and it's all come together like magic Me, suspicious: what do you mean like magic? Him: everyone was available to come and we got a great cottage to rent and there were places in nearby motels for guests to stay and we have all the supplies we need to host, it just so came together Me: it didn't come together I worked my ass off to make it work out, I spent hours on the phone and writing emails and making lists, why do you think I've been so stressed out lately? Him: I dunno, you get stressed out a lot?
Weddings are like a fucking second full time job in terms of workload, especially the closer you get to the day. I've told my husband that we can never get divorced because I'm never going through a wedding again. The joke at my friend's wedding was that if a couple can survive the wedding without breaking up, you know they can get through anything.
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Him: this is so great and it's all come together like magic
Me, suspicious: what do you mean like magic?
Him: everyone was available to come and we got a great cottage to rent and there were places in nearby motels for guests to stay and we have all the supplies we need to host, it just so came together
Me: it didn't come together I worked my ass off to make it work out, I spent hours on the phone and writing emails and making lists, why do you think I've been so stressed out lately?
Him: I dunno, you get stressed out a lot?
Weddings are like a fucking second full time job in terms of workload, especially the closer you get to the day. I've told my husband that we can never get divorced because I'm never going through a wedding again. The joke at my friend's wedding was that if a couple can survive the wedding without breaking up, you know they can get through anything.